your best friend becomes your boyfriend/girlfriend

apa pros and cons ada serious relationship (baca: date) dengan best friend sendiri?
pros: dah kenal. selesa. already know how to communicate or handle dia. know her/his fav/nay. kawan kawan kau kawan kawan dia jugak. etc
cons: already know your past. feeling kene berubah dan awal awal jadi satu relationship yang awkward. scope kawan jadi situ situ je. etc


saya lelaki. dan saya selalu buat that girl jadi best friend dulu, baru ajak date. pernah kene friendzone dan pernah juga diterima.
diterima tu, lucky you. mungkin kau handsome.
so best tak kene friendzone? learn la from that. it means tak semua orang boleh terima cara kita. and you ruined your friendship! congrats, bro.


tapi best apa bestfriend bila jadi boyfriend/girlfriend. bc they already know your weaknesses, dia more understanding, and no need to cover-kelakukan phase.
okay, that one aku agree. but you have to remember, kau kawan dengan bestfriend kau sebab nak kawan ke nak kawen?! ikhlas kau kawan dengan dia sebab apa? sebab dia handsome/lawa? ke sebab "dari mata mu mata mu ku mulai jatuh cinta..."?


the thing is, dah selesa dengan best friend kau...
isnt it more exciting get to know other people? i mean, maybe dengan orang lain pun kau selesa. ajak borak kejap je dah macam kenal for years. so belum cuba belum tahu. bosan la asyik best friend pergi teman makan, dia jugak kau ngadu nasib, dia jugak la date kau, dia jugak kau spend the rest of your life with. tak bosan ke?


kau main dengan emotions, fy... it comes naturally. mana boleh paksa! dah tersuka!
so betul lah kan, memang dari awal friendship korang tak ikhlas bc that feeling is already there. true or true?


apa effect after break up dengan best friend? and how to handle it?
of course friendship korang akan more awkward or ruined or worst which is jadi stranger. if you are matured enough, then kau handle benda tu pun secara nicely la. slow talk for instance. and careful bila berkawan dengan opposite sex.


so sebenarnya bagus ke tak relationship mcmni?
depends. bagus ke tak tu subjective. my opinion, aku tak suka. prinsip aku, best friend stays best friend. if you ruined it, kau akan ke friendzone. gedit? plus, your boyfriend can be your best friend, but not vice versa.





yes, i may not have the experience in relationship, but i do know what it feels like bila best friend confessed and having a feeling towards em.





FRIENDSHIP IS GOOD. DONT CRAP IT UP BY FALLING IN LOVE. 






sorry if entry kali ni a bit cheesy and nak muntah hijau. TAPI AKU RIMAS LA KAU NAK KAWAN, KAWAN JELAH TAK PAYAH LA BERCINTA DENGAN DIA!!!